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| Looks like it would be pretty great, huh? Too bad I wouldn't know! |
WHY? I have no idea! I spend a lot of time thinking that 1 hour could be used so much more efficiently. I could be doing something else that is more productive, or that is more useful for other people in my life. Spending an hour away just laying there on a table having someone knead through my sore muscles, and letting the quiet be my guide is not helping anybody...or is it?
Revelation #1: That's the point! My wonderful husband saw that maybe, it was something I needed! Maybe, the people who depend on me will be just fine for 1 hour in time! Perhaps they would gladly send me off to relax in the hopes that I come back with more patience, and feeling less stressed.
Revalation #2: Doing something Nice for myself isn't a sin. It's ok to treat myself to an indulging massage, or manicure, or coffee, or whatever...every once in a while! These things are not going to harm my little sidekicks (and big one too)...in fact they will be happier knowing that Mommy is happier, right?
Revalation #3: I've actually begun treating myself months ago when I decided to revolutionize my life with health and fitness! Exercising is definitely one of these indulgences that makes me a happier lady. I can't stress how much better I feel after working up a sweat; even if for just 30 minutes.
I've been really trying to look for the positives in life to make me smile. The more I smile, the more those around me do too. Out of all of my personal goals, fitness and otherwise, having a happy and healthy family is the ultimate #1.
Being nice to yourself is so important. It's not always selfish. It's rarely selfish. Taking time for YOU is so very crucial, and shows your children and those around you that not only should you care for and about your loved ones, but you also should care for and about YOU.
Now, where's that massage gift card? I hope there's no expiration date!
What is it that you've been putting off...something for just you?
OMGSH! I also have a one hour massage certificate over a year old! What is wrong with us!! Lol. I keep thinking of times to break away, but it never happens! I will try to use it this month....something just for me! (Weird huh)
ReplyDeleteOMGSH! I also have a one hour massage certificate over a year old! What is wrong with us!! Lol. I keep thinking of times to break away, but it never happens! I will try to use it this month....something just for me! (Weird huh)
ReplyDeleteOMGSH! I also have a one hour massage certificate over a year old! What is wrong with us!! Lol. I keep thinking of times to break away, but it never happens! I will try to use it this month....something just for me! (Weird huh)
ReplyDeleteOMGSH! I also have a one hour massage certificate over a year old! What is wrong with us!! Lol. I keep thinking of times to break away, but it never happens! I will try to use it this month....something just for me! (Weird huh)
ReplyDeleteI say we both use them. Just go use them! So funny you have one too!! :-0 Wonder if it's at the same place??
DeleteGo make the appointment. I have learned that when mama's not happy, nobody's happy...an empty pitcher cannot pour. When you do for yourself, you have more to give, and you feel good. Don't wait to take good care of yourself...life is toooooo short
ReplyDeleteI'm thinking I will! Maybe this weekend, in fact...I've got some aching muscles! :-)
DeleteI like that, an empty pitcher cannot pour...:-)
Great blog. I love fitness! Good for you:)
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Thanks for stopping by, Tania!
DeleteI have one to... I'm super nervous to get a message. I've never had one before. EEKKK. It scares me that I will be tense the whole time.
ReplyDeleteFunny, Chelsea! You've just got to let yourself relax..it's a totally weird experience! Maybe that's why I'm procrastinating about it! :-)
ReplyDeleteoh my goodness..my spa gift card has been sitting on my desk for over a year!! i can't bring myself to use it! I checked the expiration date and there isn't one..but it may be out of business before i ever get there!!
ReplyDeleteGreat blog. I'm massage-fobia myself. I'm your newest follower via GFC. I'd be glad if you return the favor. Tnx!
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